5th September 2010 

Testimonials - from men, women and young people


I found Jules’ leaflet describing her qualifications and the counselling she offered in a beauty salon and immediately knew that I should be with her repairing the internal me, not (well, at least as well as!) in a place dealing with the external.

Having overcome the first step of admitting that I needed help, I found the second step of knocking on the door and crossing the threshold just as difficult. Fortunately from then on, it was easy. After the very first meeting, a deep relief set in, almost a sense of indulgence in talking to someone who was so supportive, took things at my speed, reflected back to me what I was saying, and helped me to understand myself. Under Jules’ guidance, I experienced frequent moments of completely new insight about myself and my life, and it was this fresh awareness that helped me bring to manageable proportions what had seemed to be the enormity of the problems I faced.
Thank you, Jules. I am truly grateful.
C. Weybridge 2010.

Having come to the conclusion that I was not happy with many aspects of my life and realizing that I could not solve the many issues I knew about and a few I did not by myself I thought talking to a counsellor would help my wellbeing. I found Jules website and immediately her words of introduction resonated with me. Meeting in person did not disappoint either, Jules in quiet studied thoughtful and unhurried manner began the process of understanding and then untangling then reforming a mixture of anxiety, low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence into a more positive way of thinking, where every -thing is attainable and possible, where change can be embraced and not feared. Jules in a tender and empathetic way has helped me to start living my life, I am in a happier place and I believe Jules has been instrumental in helping me achieve this. I will forever be in her debt.
J. Chertsey 09.

I have spent most of my adult life battling issues which have developed from a young age through to adulthood. Before meeting Jules I struggled to find ways to address, accept and work through problems which have riddled me for years. Meeting Jules has been life-changing, she has been truly inspirational and helped me to work through so many problems which have held me back in the past. I finally feel able to move on with my life having learnt so much about myself using valuable tools taught in a calming environment at a pace which worked for me.
The hardest part of the whole process has been saying goodbye to someone who has become so very special to me, I will always feel truly privileged to have met such a wonderful person who has helped me to find my path in life. If you are thinking about getting some help, stop thinking about it and just do it, meeting and working with Jules has been the best thing I ever did for my personal development, I cannot recommend her highly enough.
K. Woking 09.

I have been so pleased and constantly astounded at the progress I have been making in my sessions with Jules. She has played a critical role in helping me to look deep within, honestly and openly. She has been able to help me validate certain feelings and emotions and also to aid me in seeing experiences and thoughts from different perspectives. I feel completely comfortable with her in every session, and the atmosphere she provides to speak exactly what I am feeling or thinking is liberating!!
C. Egham 09.

I went to see Jules when I was in a very confused and anxious state. I had just lost my dear father, my boyfriend at the time was causing me a lot of unhappiness and to top it all I had a terrible boss who had chipped away at my confidence which put me in a very dark place.

Over time Jules helped me to see through the fog, and as my confidence and peace of mind returned due to Jules providing me with the tools to deal with my anxieties and worries, the world seemed a brighter and happier place to be.

During my sessions I have learnt so much about myself which has helped me to tap into my inner strength. This in turn allows me to deal with whatever life throws at me.

I would highly recommend Jules as a counsellor to friends and family as she is a total professional, caring, sincere and a wonderful human being who has truly found her vocation in life.

I am deeply sad our sessions have come to an end.
N. Chertsey 09.

I went to see Jules in a state of unhappiness and quite some distress. With her gentle help and guidance I was able to explore the reasons for my state of being and together we worked on ‘putting me back together’.

With her help, support, insight and guidance a couple of months on and I have never felt better, I have a much deeper understanding of who I am, what I deserve and need, and where to go from here.

It was a difficult journey and I was honoured and relieved to have Jules by my side, helping me to see things clearly and come to a new level of understanding, and a new found, solid, happiness.
T. Weybridge 08

When I first came to Jules, I didn't really know who I was or what exactly it was that I wanted, I just knew that I wasn't happy and things had to change. Jules was able to gently guide me in the right direction towards finding myself and accepting who I was.Counselling has not been the experience I was expecting. I thought it would be hard work and invasive but instead it has been a wonderful journey of self discovery which I have entirely enjoyed.
Jules is calm, kind, sincere and understanding and I never felt uncomfortable, even though we were discussing sensitive personal experiences.
I would recommend her to anyone who isn't happy with life the way it is and wants to make a change.
R. Woking 08

I went to Jules in pretty poor shape, my coping mechanisms shot to ribbons and in considerable despair. Luckily for me, I had found the right person to engender a sense of calm and to foster a belief that I would come through this illness, for that's what it was.
She helped me open up a far better understanding of where I used to be, where I seemed to be now, and where I wanted to be in future. My thanks for all she’s done for me since late last Summer are sincere.
H. Weybridge 08

No amount of words can really describe what Jules did for me. Despite her adamants that it was me who helped myself, I will always maintain that she stopped me from slipping away entirely, into the dark place in which I was trapped. Words only serve to make my experience sound trivial, but quite frankly, she saved me.
H.(17) Addlestone 07

I went to see Jules when I was suffering from anxiety and panic attacks. Jules was able to make me feel very comfortable and at ease with her immediately. Over time Jules and I built up a strong relationship and she was able to guide me through my problems, offering me support and understanding. I feel that Jules has equipped me with the tools to overcome my anxiety in the long term and not just short term. Jules provided me with coping mechanisms as well as reassurance that I was going to get through my anxiety. I would highly recommend Jules as a counsellor as she genuinely cares for you and wants to see you gain back the confidence you may have lost through stress and anxiety.
V. Weybridge 07

Jule’s is a caring and empathetic counsellor who works in a warm, safe and comfortable environment where I have been able to freely share my private thoughts and feelings. She identifies key issues quickly and has guided me towards a place where gentle reflection and self-awareness has enabled me to start to grow past my old habits, doubts and limiting beliefs. I feel stronger, optimistic and empowered and I am, at last on a journey of acceptance of who I am.
M. Chertsey 07

Jules really helped me through a difficult time in my life and I thank her for everything.
R. Woking 07

I would say I'm changing into a better person, I just wish I could keep going to her for the rest of my life! I would highly recommend Jules to anyone.
M. New Haw 06

Since having counselling with Jules I feel lighter of spirit and have resolved certain issues that I feel were holding me back from leading a more fulfilled life. Taking the step to have counselling was one of the most important decisions I have made.
K. Weybridge 06